How To Say "No"

When I look back on my high school years, I'll never forget how hectic it seemed. I was running everywhere I went, hurrying from one activity to the next, going non-stop 24/7, always trying to catch my breath...

Don't get me wrong- high school was great. I asked for that kind of a schedule. I wanted to be on the volleyball team, on the football pep squad, in Student Council, in my church youth group, in Latin club, president of National Charity League, in the top twenty of my class...you get the idea. Partaking in everything and building up that resume for college- that's just what a senior in high school does. It seems like a requirement. If you can't take the pressure and stress of high school, how will you ever make it in the big leagues?

I thought that I needed to run around and be involved in everything because that was what it would take in college. But I missed one very crucial step in high school- learning how to say "no!"

I'm not trying to discourage anyone from the activities I was in- come on, Latin Club rocks! :)
My point is that it's ok to slow down a little. It didn't take all that stress to get into college. And it definitely doesn't have to be that way now that I'm here. I don't think I've ever turned down a club, organization, or activity ever- until now. My first attempt at it was pretty weak (and now I'm chairing a phonothan!) However, it does get easier. I turned down joining multiple choirs; all I'm ready for is one this year. I'm thinking about joining the math club once volleyball season is over- but not until then. I'm actually breathing, calmly and surely. I feel good. I have time to relax and enjoy. And get this- I find those calm moments everyday! Not just the weekends!

I wish I had learned this lesson a long time ago. It wasn't something ever taught at my high school. It's this magic word that can take stress from your life, put fewer activities on your plate with more time to enjoy them, and even leave you enough time to watch "Grey's Anatomy" while still getting your homework done. Once you have mastered the word, you find great empowerment in taking control of your life. SENIORS OF AMERICA- JUST SAY NO!!!


"The Lord is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?" -Psalm 27:1

Bye y'all!
Anna